Learning To Meditate Without Becoming A Buddhist Monk

We are living in a society which is quite materialistic in nature. Ever since the Industrial Revolution, people have changed their way of life. We are all looking to better our lives with things and more things. We love to be surrounded by objects that we fancy and we even feel a sense of happiness when we aquire what we want.

Unfortunately this materialistic scope of life has created a lage gap between our mind, body and soul.

We have various foods that keep our body well fed and healthy (or not so healthy, depending on the type of foods you eat). The objects that we are surrounding with are fueling and feeding our minds. We know more about technology than ever before. We have gadgets that really engage our minds at an intellectual level.

However what about our soul? What about our inner being?

This is why in the last 50 years or so more and more people have started turning towards spiritual matters. Meditation has been introduced to the Western world by gurus, monks and teachers of the East who wanted to spread their knowledge and love for spirituality and mindfulness. And it is not a surprise that we have eagerly embraced meditation and welcomed it with open arms.

We are hungry for spirituality, for meditation, for a healing of the soul.

Our lives are very hectic in nature, we are full of stress, anxiety, anger due to work, family issues, financial problems or life in general.

Meditation is one outlet that people have started to use in order to gain back their contact with their subconscious mind, with themselves.

When it comes to meditation, many people fear learning it because they think it is only suitable to people who are seriously meditating for a long time in exile from the rest of the humans, or have spent years in the Tibetan mountains as monks.

However this is far from the truth.

First of all, you need to understand why do you want to meditate. Sure, if you are looking for enlightenment, or satori, then you will need to make it your life goal to achieve it through meditation and contemplation. However for the rest of us, meditation is merely a channel to relieve stress, to let go of the accumulated emotional issues that we have been carrying around for many years.

When you are starting your meditative journey, you will find a lot of advice and tips on how to go about meditating. With the wide reach of the internet, there is a lot of information on the subject. Some of it is good, however some of it should be avoided. But how do you know which way to go?

You need to first understand what is NOT meditation. I have heard people say that meditation is being done even when you are slumbered on your couch watching TV. That is as far away from meditation as it gets!

I have also heard people say that meditation is concentration. This is also wrong. Sure you concentrate when meditating, I would even venture to say that meditation is a FORM of concentration, but one is not equal to the other one.

And meditation is definitely not a religion or a religious practice. We do use various rituals when meditating, by either lighting a candle or saying a small prayer before, or by sitting with the right posture, however this has really nothing to do with religion. You can be a very devout religious person and you can meditate. You can also be a confirmed atheist and still meditate.

And finally meditation is NOT spirituality. It is a form of spirituality, a set of techniques that help us deepen our spirituality, learn more about ourselves and become more aware.

There are various meditation techniques that you can use to calm your mind, stop the inner chit chatter and let you focus during the practice. Meditation can be easy, it can be simple and it can be profound.

Do not try to learn meditation with high expectations. Actually do not have any expectations at all. Simply enjoy the journey. Learn the basics of the right posture, mindset and the various types of meditation so you have an idea of which technique you want to try out first.

Once you have practiced for a while, it will be easy to try out other techniques as well. You might find along the way a technique that is better suited to you, to your mindset and personality.